That many, because the company is no longer the only person able to speak fluent Japanese, which meant his position began to shake. And the attitude of his previous bad treatment of employees, popularity is not good, so if it is to arrogant, I am afraid it will be job security.
 
Komei choose to escape, while the Ka Wah choose
To fight. In fact, Ka Wah fighting very simple way, is "eye for an eye, but also a person in his body" in charge of personal pride, and this is his source of pride to understand Japanese, so we address this source to deal with him.
 
So, wanting first to understand this person’s temper. Can yelled just right, sharply.
 
Actual
Practice: small actions to learn their opponents
 
If you frequently contact each other, then to understand the temper of his personality is not difficult. However, if the first meeting of strangers, or are not familiar with, not the common people? With such people from the conflict, how should we know him? Can try to observe each other’s little tricks, because

Should be treated by what methods. Although still often criticized in charge, but the Ka Wah acquiesced down. However, there is a secret action Ka Wah, that is to study Japanese, unwittingly, two years later, Ka Wah Japanese progress fast. In addition to the dialogue usually has very little wrong with the head outside the company’s business began to participate
Directly, only do not like that behind the scenes work.
 
Once in charge of nitpicking, some are not satisfied with the work of the Ka Wah place, they begin to curse in Japanese whining up, starting with the director of Wah calmly excuse, not only speak fluent Japanese, smooth, sentence sentence reasonable, clearly and logically, and aggressive posture. Although I
Usually dialogue, but are more commonly used business phrase, K. Wah today, so long list of mouth said to charge very surprised, so start thinking up confusion, and finally was forced to say nothing Ka Wah. Office suddenly burst into thunderous applause, everyone for the wonderful performance of the Ka Wah applauded.
 
After the convergence is also in charge from

Is often in charge required in Japanese dialogue. Once they did not really understand the time in charge of contempt and ridicule would be an extremely tone: "You just utterly obtuse these people die, even simple conversation is not learn, you live in this world is simply a waste of the Earth of resources. "Similar language is often their right
Shame.
 
Ho Ming is difficult to understand this point, obviously you can communicate in Chinese, talk about why nonJapanese? In a few words of insult after being in charge, Ho Ming decided to no longer is in charge of Japanese dialogue. Director to ask questions in Japanese, Ho Ming in Chinese answer to, so to be put in charge angered,
Loudly criticized in Japanese opened. Although he is not fluent in Japanese, but the Komei know it is hard to hear bad language are. Ho Ming could no longer tolerate such abnormal head, and then the day he handed in his resignation.
 
Ho Ming Wah do not agree with the practice, he chose to actively fight, what kind of person

Is my fault, but anyway you can use that kind of attitude do not treat me", "This thing I do is wrong, but you use words to describe my way is not some too much? "and so on.
 
This is your fault and separate the terms of his attitude. Is that no matter what, he should criticize you with a
Good attitude error, but can not use bad attitude towards you, should things not human.
 
 
And Ho Ming Wah is a foreign trade company with the staff, their supervisor returned from study in Japan. Since this company is mainly engaged in trade with Japan, so Japanese people know little very popular. Their supervisors can speak fluent Japanese, has naturally become
The eyes of the Reds boss.
 
This charge is a very arrogant, look down on people, particularly after he got the upper hand, even more arrogant. Opponent scream staff is a common practice, the staff could not understand most is in charge often used in Japanese curse.
 
Ka Wah, Ho Ming and a few colleagues would point in Japanese, it

To do? So, my colleagues also imperfect. However, the other because of work issues in a hurry, if the boss an evaluation, it will obviously put Huarui negative, so in this case, Huarui should first bow, a big argument with my colleagues not to wait until things have passed, then take the best way to find colleagues to talk about.

 
3, Qiao find loopholes
 
To try to avoid making the wrong place, use the other words in his anger, the vulnerability to attack each other, if successfully transferred to the other’s vulnerability topic, while avoiding their mistakes aside, you have successfully a; If you can grasp the other’s vulnerabilities and hold the other party still does not give up your
Mistakes, even if both sides are wrong, at least a draw.
 
Four separate terms
 
This is a principle based on vulnerabilities found each other, and this vulnerability is in the other’s attitude on this basis, no matter what the other side accusing you of wrong, you can accuse him of his attitude. For example, you can say, "I know this

For your mistakes and use it against you, then you can change from passive to active, make good an argument with him, and this time completely Do not worry, because informed people will stand around you on this side.
 
Second, the arguments do not hurry
 
Although you have been each other’s words or acts of provocation, but if you are
The wrong party, it would be better off being fire, air pressure, do not immediately Jiugen other conflict, is the socalled "gentlemen’s revenge, no later than ten years" can wait until this matter has gradually calmed down and find the other side talk about it. Of course, the premise is still necessary to apologize, after the apology, we can have
A good big reason, because the other side angered you, also has his shortcomings, so both sides are wrong, both sides should bow.
 
Such as the aforementioned case of Huarui, obviously their time playing games at work earlier, he is wrong, and colleagues without the consent of Huarui unplug the computer power on, and if this information is lost how

Keep silent, patient do not care about. Otherwise, if the other party is not to be trifled, and the conversation turns to the point you wrong, you lose.
 
 DW15 ( actual practice: how to change wrong to confidently
 
Is not under any circumstances, as long as there is little wrong, you can not talk back then? Of course not, you
Want to change wrong to righteousness, still have to have some skills.
 
A timely apology
 
If you have realized that going to face a fight in the battlefield, they have the wrong side, it would be timely apology. Many people think that an apology did not face, so clearly  where clearly is their mistake, and died not admit. To know
That no matter of pride, not apology, people will praise because of your aggressive and you have to play; If you know our mistakes and do not change, being scolded, pointing the nose while you mistakes you can not fight back, is it really did not face.
 
If you have timely and sincere apology, but still grabbed each other tightly

Huarui that this is no exception, even the boss did not expect him to pack up leave open.
 
Huarui surprise, did not stand still for a long time to react.
 
In fact, supervisors want to see what employees do outside of work time to work things? The reason why tolerance Huarui boss before him, is because the company needed his
Expertise, but the company’s technical staff for new Huarui lost the original advantage, this time he should obediently serious work, he did not expect to change not bad habits, can not be fired?
 
Huarui fired another reason is that when its the wrong time must not quarrel. When my colleagues asked him if he could stop the hands of the
Game, once the work will not lead to arguments, the boss there is less reason to fire him, he has chosen the wrong time in his quarrel with my colleagues, would not be asking for trouble ?
 
Curse to subforums, subtime, when their wrong time, whether the other party did not have too much to do, all the best to

Time playing games are hot, so they casually meet, "and so will you come back, did not see I’m busy? "ordinary day depends Huarui face colleagues, this can really Greatest Fire, and" What are you busy ah? now is the time to work is important is the work of important games ah? this item to the customer of the afternoon
Would Now a problem, you should not immediately look?! "
 
Huarui still did not stop playing games, "What issues are so serious that you can not, you do not recognize, you stood it! I waited a while is you, do not bother me here."
 
He did not stop my colleagues see the meaning, in a rage, the computer directly to
The Huarui power, Huarui good time being happy, suddenly the computer was shut, and saw my colleagues in the hands of the power plug, it directed at colleagues shouted angrily cried.
 
The quarrel led to the two supervisors, the supervisors asked what happened. Huarui had also heads held high waiting for the boss’s decision, has always been the boss’s favorite

Select the right time curse, of course, should know what must not be the case mouth opening.
 
Huarui is the rare company of technical talent, and as such, his company had just a regular employee, but also a small standing. Fallen in love with his boss, colleagues and even did not dare touch him, taste and feel of bully.
 
Huarui
A hobby is playing online games, all games have been his favor. But this does not affect his work, so when work is routine on the line, this fault of his superiors quite a headache, but can be read in his subon also open one eye and close up.
 
Recently the company as effective, decided to expand, recruiting new people.
In the recruitment of people, among them, several are technology talents, capacity and Huarui par. This time Huarui have a sense of crisis, and work more seriously, and yet the old trouble playing games at work or not changed.
 
This time the project, Huarui there is a problem not well, my colleagues will come to him, happened to Huarui good